If you appear confident in your approach and be direct with your intentions you’ll have no problem picking up girls. Chatting up girls can be the most nerve racking experiences imaginable. Confidence is largely perceived non verbally, so it’s important you communicate this through your body language and voice tonality. It will only make a girl anxious and wanting to end the conversation. Whether you’re meeting a girl or going in for the kiss, YOU have to be the one pulling the trigger. You must be bold and prepared to put your neck on the line for women.
And with this you’ve got to expect to be rejected from time to time. But it’s how you handle rejection that will define your success with picking up women.
If you can bounce back from your failures, learn from your mistakes and keep practicing, you’ll slowly become desensitized to the fear of rejection and become unstoppable with women.
So it’s polite to start with “excuse me” to avoid alarming them. You’ve just met the girl so avoid asking serious questions like, “What do you do for work? Similarly to the opening line, keep your initial conversation simple and situational.
For example if you’re talking to a girl at the train station, ask where she’s heading today. Laughter is the way to a woman’s heart, so if you can banter and joke around she’ll be extremely receptive to the idea of meeting up with you again. ” and she replies with “Brighton” (a seaside town in the UK), you could reply with something like “What to sunbathe?
You need the reassurance a girl likes you before lunging in for the kiss. It’s not cool to ask a girl “Is it OK if I kiss you? Instead, learn to be observationally aware of the situation, pick up on the cues and know the right time to smoothly go in for the kiss.
Here are the common indicators of interest to look out for. As a way of ending the conversation on a high note.
And above all make sure your compliment is non creepy or overtly sexual. Telling a girl you think she’d look sexy in a bikini is a little overboard.